Gay 1st time
As a gay dude, you may be surprised to catch that one of the biggest hurdles I faced was going into a gay bar for the first time.
At 17-years-old, I was in awe of my straight mates. They’d been wandering into bars and nightclubs for the last year with the only threat of getting asked for age identification.
At 17 years antique, my straight mates were not only getting drunk most Friday and Saturday nights but were boasting about sleeping around with members of the contrary sex without any worry. Whether they’d slept with many of those they mentioned was unlock to debate.
At 17 years old, it was against the law for me to sleep with a person of the same sex. If I boasted about it, I could get myself into trouble. The law stated that, for my guard, sex remained on hold until I reached 21.
Of course, I overlooked that particular part of the law. Love any red-blooded male at 17, my hormones made my brain think of little else but wanting to (putting it mildly) obtain laid.
By the moment I reached my 19th birthday, I already had what I had considered a boyfriend. He was over the age of 21 and thought I was too.
On one particular, wet Saturday evening, I launch myself sitting i
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Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a harmless and respectful way
To begin, I’d like to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to explore their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it’s important to perceive that you can aim new things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who desire to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the other side of trans. We debate trans men morehere, andhere’s some support and counsel about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
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First gay experience was with a 45 year old
Age when it happend: 17
Where it happened: In a van
Langauge: english
Sex: Male
Rating: 9
Category: Gay
Although when a child you have those moments you show your friend your dick and what not, this is my first real sexually experience with a another dude. First off let me tell I consider myself straight, although technically I have been with men so I guess that makes me bi even though those days are over with. However I always wanted to every since I think I was around 13. I was always curious about it but never acted on it other than masturbating.
When i got around 15 or 16 I started chatted on aim chat rooms that was m4m. I don’t believe that back then craigslist was around like it is today. When I was a senior in high academy I was 17. That is the age I started sexually experimenting with both girls and guys which lead to the loss of my virginity from both. Early that year in the fall, I first missing my virginity to a miss. Then when spring came I finally decided to start looking into doing it.
I could not risk looking for someone I know out of fear that people would detect out so I never even consi